novel-bin Chapter 737 Women’s Difficulties (1)
Chapter 737 Women’s Difficulties (1)
"I thought he was pretty well behaved just now, but after his questions started popping up one after another, I became more and more crazy..." Ji Xiaomu said fearfully. She always thought that she was indifferent to things and had a relatively mild temper.
She never thought that just spending a stick of incense with Yang Yuxiang would allow her to redefine herself.
When she becomes a mother in the future, she will probably be like Duan Yue!
"That's right! Even a biological mother can go crazy." Aunt Li laughed, "So at this time, we need someone else to take over and help take care of the child."
"How long will this last?" asked Ji Xiaomu curiously.
"It's about the same when they are about four years old," Aunt Li replied. "At four years old, they won't ask questions anymore, but will do it themselves."
Ji Xiaomu: "..."
Is the baby so scary? As expected, if you are not a mother, you will never understand the bitterness of this.
"I never knew that raising a child would be so hard, not physically but more mentally," sighed Ji Xiaowu.
"Speaking of this, the girl from the Bai family in the next village married the youngest son of the Li family in the neighboring village. He was a nice guy when they met, but after they got married, he had to sleep with his mother and left the bride in the bridal chamber on the wedding night. The girl from the Bai family thought that everything would be fine after she gave birth to a child, but unexpectedly, the youngest son of the Li family didn't even look at the child after she gave birth, and her mother-in-law didn't even help. The girl from the Bai family raised the child by herself until he was three years old. She was such a lively and smiling girl before she got married, but now her face is gloomy and she doesn't even smile. She is completely unrecognizable." Aunt Li sighed.
"Isn't it tiring to raise a child alone until he is three years old? What's more, her husband and mother-in-law didn't help. Last time, she even bought a small dagger and almost hid in her room to hurt herself! If Gao hadn't discovered her, she would have died long ago." Aunt Li said angrily. The Li family was really unreasonable.
"Why doesn't she divorce?" asked Ji Xiaomu with a frown.
"Not only will a woman who divorces these days be ridiculed, but the Bai family's family members are not good people either. There are many brothers in the family, and not only are they unwilling to support the Bai family, they also tell her not to go home unless necessary. What will she do after she divorces such an unreliable family? What will happen to her children?" Aunt Li sighed.
"Are we going to endure this forever?" Ji Xiaomu said angrily. She felt suffocated as if she was in a desperate situation.
"What can we do if we can't bear it? Women's lives are difficult nowadays. They are not accepted in the first place, and it is even harder for them to make a living. What will they eat and where will they live after the divorce?" Aunt Li sighed, "So the natal family is very important at this time. A good natal family can at least provide support."
"That's really too much!" Ji Xiaowu frowned and said, "You're going to suffer like this for the rest of your life after marrying the wrong person? Sooner or later you'll be driven crazy."
"Is there no way we can help her?" Ji Xiaomu said angrily.
"Girl, you! Do you know what it means that even an honest official cannot judge family affairs?" Aunt Li tapped Little Mother Ji's forehead. "How can an official intervene in a family matter like this? At most, they will scold you and let you go home to live a good life. There is nothing else they can do."
"It's hard to explain what happens at home and outside." Aunt Li's words made Ji Xiaou frown.
Women in this era are not only not valued, they don't even get the respect they deserve. Even if they marry the wrong person, they can only say that it is their bad luck and they have to put up with it all their lives.