Chapter 254: Escape from the Mountains (35)
Chapter 254: Escape from the Mountains (35)
"Why are you eating in the South 2 Canteen?" The person who called out was a pretty girl with big curly hair and wearing a brown tassel skirt.
Li Yanshu's dormitory is on the other side, and he rarely comes to the South 2 canteen to eat.
"Is this your friend?" The girl looked at Xiaocao.
Li Yanshu didn't know how to introduce Xiaocao for a moment.
Xiao Cao said, "I am his sister."
The girl smiled at Xiaocao and said, "Hello, sister."
Li Yanshu said to Xiaocao, "She's also a computer science major, a junior."
"What a coincidence, your sister also studies computer science? That means she's my junior!"
Li Yanshu actually didn't expect Xiaocao to apply for computer science major.
Xiaocao smiled.
"Then you guys eat first, I'm leaving first. By the way, Li Yanshu, Teacher Luo seems to be looking for you. He sent a message in the group. Remember to check the group messages." After the girl said that, she left with her friend.
Li Yanshu took out his cell phone and took a look.
"I have something to do later. I was thinking of taking you around the school."
Xiao Cao didn't mind these: "It's okay, go ahead, I've been here a few times before, it's not too unfamiliar to me."
After dinner, Li Yanshu left in another direction, and Xiaocao returned to the dormitory.
There was only one roommate in the dormitory. When he saw Xiaocao, they greeted each other.
The next morning, when Xiaocao went to the professional building for professional class, she met Wu Mengchuan in the lobby.
Wu Mengchuan also raised his eyebrows when he saw Xiaocao.
"Li Youcao? You also signed up for computer science?"
Xiaocao nodded.
Wu Mengchuan was recommended for graduate school at the same university and is now in his first year. He had no idea that his sister's basketball partner had much better grades than her.
"Wu Menghe didn't tell me that we go to the same school. Do you have classes this afternoon? Wu Menghe said he'd come to have dinner with me in the evening. Do you want to join me?"
Xiao Cao said: "I'm not sure, I'll contact her later."
"That's fine."
After Xiaocao left, Wu Mengchuan's classmate patted him on the shoulder and said, "Sure, you know all the new girls."
"My sister's classmate."
After entering the classroom, Xiaocao sent a message to Wu Menghe.
Wu Menghe attends a sports school in this city, which is some distance away from S University.
Wu Menghe did not respond, probably he was in training.
The computer department's course schedule is almost full. Except for Wednesday afternoons when we have a break, even Saturdays and Sundays are full of classes.
Xiaocao originally wanted to choose tennis in physical education class, but she didn't get it and chose volleyball instead.
Xiaocao didn't expect that after choosing computer science as his major, his university life would be busier than high school.
Throughout the first semester of his freshman year, except for statutory holidays when he could return to Luyuan, Xiaocao was always in school, going only between the classroom, library, and dormitory.
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While busy with his own studies, Xiaocao did not forget Xiaohua.
Xiaohua is in the first grade of junior high school now. She can keep up with her studies and Xiaocao doesn't need to worry about her. However, seeing Xiaohua's body gradually developing and growing, Xiaocao thinks it's time to teach Xiaohua some physiological knowledge.
Although there are physiology classes in school, the teachers don’t explain many details.
When Xiaocao returned home during the holiday, she took out a sanitary napkin and told Xiaohua how to use it.
"This is a physiological condition that every girl will experience, and each girl's menstrual cycle is different. We can use the cycle to calculate the date of the next menstrual period and prepare sanitary products in our bag in advance."
"The number of days it comes varies. Some people come five days a week, some come seven days a week. If it hasn't come for over a month, that's normal, but if it hasn't come for a long time, you should pay attention."
"Menstruation is nothing to be ashamed of, and there's no need to hide it."
"If you have a stomachache, don't force it. Ask your teacher for leave and go home to rest."
Xiaohua nodded.
"You can also keep it in your bag as a backup. Maybe some girls don't have it with them and you can give it to them in an emergency."
Xiaohua asked, "Do I need to bring so much?"
"Change sanitary napkins every two hours. Bacteria can easily grow over time." Xiaocao said, "Once you get used to it, if you don't like using sanitary napkins, you can switch to other menstrual products."
"Don't do strenuous exercise during menstruation, and exercise more at other times."
Xiaohua doesn't like sports and her body is soft. I heard that the physical education class she chose is the simplest swimming, which is almost like playing in the water.
Xiaocao noticed that her chest seemed to be a little bulging, so she asked her if it hurt.
"Girls all develop at this age, there's no need to be shy."
Xiaohua nodded.
"A little bit, hard, it hurts when you touch it."
"When did the pain start?"
Xiaohua said, "Last month."
"You are in the early stages of development, so your breasts will hurt. Try to avoid getting them touched, and stay away from boys who play around."
If you accidentally hit it, it will be very painful.
After knowing that Xiaohua had grown, Xiaocao took her to an offline store to buy her a few small cotton vests.
"If it gets tight later, tell me."
Xiaohua asked, "Do I need to wear this every day?"
"It's best to wear it every day." Xiaocao said: "You are still in the growth stage, so wear it when you go to school. If you don't want to wear it at home, don't wear it."
"Growing breasts is something all girls will experience. Don't be shy and hunch your back, as it will affect your posture."
"Including menarche, it's a very normal thing, there's nothing to be ashamed of."
Sex education becomes particularly important after girls start to develop.
"Don't let anyone touch the areas covered by our vests and underwear. Even close friends and relatives cannot touch or show them to others without your permission."
"If someone does this to you, you must stop them severely."
Xiaohua asked, "Why?"
"Because these places are our privacy."
"Everyone has privacy, boys too. Privacy is something that no one can see except ourselves. It's like jewels in a safe, treasures that can't be easily shown to outsiders."
"Our bodies are our own, and no one has the right to touch them without your permission."
"Maybe you'll have a boy you like soon. Holding hands and hugging aren't out of line, but kissing and touching your private parts are not allowed. These things can only happen with your lover after we become adults."
Xiaohua asked, "What if you already have a lover before you become an adult?"
Xiaocao said, "That's not possible either. There are some things that only adults can do."
She said to Xiaohua solemnly: "Life is very long. Few people's lovers will appear before you reach adulthood."
"It's normal for someone your age to be curious about these things, but we need to be clear about what we can and cannot do."
When children grow up in an environment where they are suddenly exposed to an unfamiliar and exciting world, they will be extremely curious. Xiaocao doesn't think there is anything wrong with curiosity, but curiosity does not mean that they must try it.
In relationships between the sexes, women are always more vulnerable than men.
Xiaocao doesn't want Xiaohua to be exposed to these things too early, but she also knows that Xiaohua can't stay in the ivory tower she built for the rest of her life.
Before going home, Xiaocao went to the bookstore and bought some sex education books for Xiaohua to read when she got home.
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